There’s hardly a woman or girl out there who doesn’t want to be in a relationship where the guy is crazy about them. Making a man crazy is not that hard at all, with a little time and patience, you’ll be able to do it. When I met my husband, the things I did for him simply made him surrender at my feet. Those things I did were just naturally dented. Here’s some advice on how to make a man crazy about you.
These are the 21 ways to make your boyfriend or any man crazy about you!
Look him in the eye
You’re sitting in a crowded bar, a campus library, or a coffee shop and then you see it. That guy with a brilliant personality who can be seen from a mile away. And who also has every physical characteristic you love in a guy! So what do you do? How do you make him go crazy over you in that moment? A little advice that makes a big difference: look him in the eye! Now, don’t get all mysterious and give him the look of a rigid killer. Look at him gently and give him a slight smile. It will be enough to inspire him to talk to you!
Wear a delicate perfume
This advice may sound silly or shallow, but believe it or not, they are a kind of signature for every woman, it just stays in the men’s memory. One of my old boyfriends actually still remembers the one I used in high school! Don’t suffocate with strong fragrances, choose a simple and soft one, put on some sexy perfume and flirt. Wear the same one every time you’re around him. Unless he’s given you a new one, which could mean he doesn’t like the one you used, but overall he’s likely to love the smell of your perfume every time you’re around him. It’s a feeling of comfort, seduction and romance all wrapped up in one.
Be willing to try new things
You must be willing to try new things, even when you are alone, but especially when you are in a love relationship. We all have fears, but sometimes love is the best motivation to overcome them. If he wants to go skydiving for his birthday, or try Ethiopian food for his anniversary, don’t hesitate to try something new. It shows that you care about him and are not afraid to have fun. Now, who doesn’t love that?
He’s not the only one who can suggest fun new experiences to do with you! You can make contingency plans or fun adventures, you too. Not all men like surprises, but for many the mystery and intrigue surrounding an unpredictable woman is exciting. You have to prove if this will work for you. The goal is to always be a little unpredictable to keep things interesting and to make her go crazy for you.
Don’t get too much
First, assess what kind of guy you’re with. Some guys like to shower you with gifts, watching you prepare, and other “production” activities. However, most guys don’t like to feel they need to compensate with your enlistment needs. Learn to go more natural and with a little makeup if you like to keep the flame burning between you and your man.
Getting your hands dirty
Maybe you’ve only been on a couple of dates and each one was a nice experience, in a classy restaurant. If that’s the case, then you haven’t really seen the true face of a good relationship. Don’t be afraid to wear jeans and a T-shirt and get your hands dirty! Go on an outdoor picnic or help him wash his car. Show him that you are more than just a pretty face and this will surely put him at your feet.
Insecurity is a very unattractive trait in a bride. If a man is with you, then he thinks you’re beautiful! Being insecure and constantly complaining about how you look can frankly get your man upset. So always put on a confident attitude when meeting new people or starting a relationship.
Don’t try to change it
You may hate your boy’s shoes or the way he wears his hair, but you know he’s like that and he loves it. Please let him be himself, don’t try to play dress-up with your boy or ask him to change his hairstyle. He’ll probably send you out to fry potatoes if he’s smart. You don’t want to be told what kind of clothes to wear and how to do your makeup or hair, so let him have the style he likes. If you can’t stand his tastes or his style and everything he chooses, then maybe you should reconsider what you’re looking for in a guy.
Get along with his friends
Boys are loyal to their friends to the end, just as every woman should be. No matter how much he likes to be with them, do your best to get along with them. If the relationship is harmed by the friendship, have a conversation with him to come to a rational agreement that both parties agree on. Don’t just be rude to his friends.
Ask about his family
You must really show him interest in his family, and in doing so, it will be noticed that you are not only interested in him, but also in the people he loves as well.
Show that you are responsible
Be financially responsible, don’t get drunk in public, and don’t show yourself as a teenager trying to get attention. Showing that you’re responsible is a great way to connect with a Boys. You can have fun and be responsible at the same time. No guy wants a long-term relationship with an immature girl or can even handle her money.
Show him your independence
First of all, you need to show him that you are independent. It’s important that you show the boy how strong you really are. Men have a tendency to be attracted to that kind of woman. If you think about depending on a man and having him fix all your problems, I think it’s time to seriously rethink this issue.
Don’t smother him.
Don’t be constantly glued to your man, following him all the time won’t make him love you anymore. You don’t always have to be in front of him preparing to do what he wants. Therefore, it’s important that you give him some space.
Don’t put yourself in his shoes
As much as I always talk about equality, there are some functions you can’t do when you’re in a strong love relationship. Allow your man to show his masculinity, he’ll take the initiative. You should be grateful when he intervenes and helps you in some way. Don’t do everything for him; let him feel useful and indispensable as well.
Learn to enjoy your life
If you have problems of any kind, try to look positively and observe carefully the good things that happen to you, being sad or depressed with a face of few friends, do not expect many men to approach you.
Show support when he needs it
No matter how strong he is, even in men, there are always moments in their lives when they need some kind of support. When you see that he needs it, you must be there for him and help him find some solution or pamper him a lot.
Always be beautiful
When many women get married, they let themselves go, simply because they already have their man. Don’t do this for anything in the world. If you were going to the hairdresser’s to fix or get some kind of new hair style, try to keep doing it. If you were smart and beautiful before you got married, just keep doing it!
I’ve seen a lot of girls try to spend so much time with their friends in order to make their man jealous. This will make you think of many situations in those long hours with your friends. Although I would never do this, there are some girls out there who recommend doing this. Again, it all depends on what you’re like. The more you take care of your relationship, the more he’s going to go crazy over you.
Be a great listener
One sure way to get a boyfriend is to pay attention to him. When he’s talking, you have to show him that you’re interested in what he’s saying. Guys love it when they have a girl who cares about them that makes them die of love. Don’t be selfish and always talk about your desires and your life. Give him some space and let his mind speak. Men like it when they are appreciated and praised for their actions.
There are a lot of women out there who are attractive too. So you have to do something that makes a difference between you and them. Find something that makes you unique so that your man is just for you.
At the end of the day, just be yourself. Don’t try to be like some superstars you once saw on TV. Be yourself and earn their respect.
To make a man crazy about you, just follow my 21 tips. Again, these are tips that I’ve used and practiced during my 6 years of marriage (since I was 18). If you have any questions or concerns, don’t hesitate to ask me and I will do my best to answer you. Also, don’t hesitate to share your experiences. What do you do that sets you apart from other girls? How did you make your man fall hopelessly in love with you?
I recommend you to try this amazing guide called Language of Desire to make your man or boyfriend to be crazy about you!